Terri's Praise Prayer

Hi and Welcome Friends! Today's post is a supplement to "The Gift of Praise" post I sent on May 13th. In that post, I encouraged everyone to create a Praise Prayer and provided a simple format guide to get you started. Today, I am sharing my Praise Prayer to God so you can see what it contains and how I went about creating it. Please believe me when I say that this Praise Prayer is the real deal! The last two weeks have been incredibly stressful and I was on my knees every morning and night thanking God and asking for more just to get through the next day. This praise prayer is a heartfelt tribute from me to my ever faithful Father and Savior. Much of this praise prayer contains Bible verses that I have paraphrased into my own words. It's interesting how reading a verse is the catalyst to expressing what sometimes feels inexpressible to God. 

Icon Hearts Encouraged (2)When I create a prayer, my choice of the verses depends on what I'm going through. Sometimes a praise prayer will have a more solemn tone because we find ourselves in deep sadness while yet finding the desire to express gratitude to God. Other times, joy is the sole focus of the praise. My praise prayer below expresses my thankfulness that God was with me and supported me as I dug down deep to be courageous and do what I wasn't sure I could. For the purpose of this post, I have included the verses that I used next to the lines of the prayer. After I create these prayers, I use these to help me remember to express gratitude and thanks to God.  Gratitude can get left behind because of time, forgetfulness, other pressing prayers requests that fill our heart. Once you create it, it's ready to use at over and over. If it's heartfelt, then it's a beautiful offering from you to God anytime you pray it.

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I would love it if you would share a line or two from your Praise Prayer or the verses that you feel represent your praise. I'll be posting this on the Hearts Encouraged Facebook Page (@TerriHutchinsonAuthor) so we can share there. Fondly, Terri

  Awe-Praise
Holy Lord, you are the Creator overall things that was and is and will be. Jesus, you are the worthy Lamb, my Savior. Holy Spirit, you are my Counselor.

My heart gives you all honor, glory, reverence, and awe that is due You. Your Presence in my life gives me victory to stand in hard times; Your Help is a shield and fortifies my strength when I feel weak; Your right hand supports, guides, and leads me. (Psalm 18:35)

I am amazed at your tender care of me and Your very nearness to me. When I feel lost You come along side me. Because of that knowledge, I can be courageous with faith and hope (Psalm 31:24). I am never alone just as You promise. (1 Peter 5:6-7; Psalm 31:24)

You graciously support me with wisdom and knowledge. How grateful I am that You hold nothing back when I call on Your name! (Isaiah 33:6; Romans 8:31-32)

You know my heart belongs to you and I know you hold it in the palm of Your hand. Thank you, Heavenly Father for your unfailing love that heals and soothes my tender heart. (John 10:29-30; Psalm 143)


Praise from the Heart

Have you ever thought you knew the definition of a word only to find out that you didn’t really know it at all? I have to laugh at myself because I know I’ve used words improperly only to discover this later on my own. No one corrected me at the time. So, this makes me wonder if they didn’t know the meaning of the word either. The truth is more likely that they were being kind as to not embarrass me! The reason I bring this up is because the word praise falls into that category of words I thought I understood. I'd like to share what I've discovered about praise and how it's a gift to God and to ourselves when we do it. And, I will guide you to create a personal praise prayer from you to God.

Person praisingPraise the Lord, O my soul

What is Praise?

To praise is to recognize the significant worth of that object, person, or event.1 Webster’s definition of praise uses words like magnificence, holiness, excellent, honored, perfect, approved.2 The capability to praise is not limited to humans for the Bible indicates all that exists praises God. In the Book of Revelation, John says the angels praise. In the Psalms, David proclaims creation praises. As for humans, throughout God’s word there are songs or prayers of praise from people such as Mary, Zechariah, Moses, and David. They couldn’t contain their wonder over God’s magnificence and holiness. These songs and prayers are lengthy and meaningful expressions of a heart-felt awe and love for God and contain much more than a “thank you, God”. If you were to read the praises of those mentioned above, you can find five elements in each one. First, they acknowledge God as Sovereign Lord using different types of descriptors and then they address His mercy, power, provision, and faithfulness. They identify God’s attributes and how it impacted or is impacting their life. Interestingly, if you were to recite the Lord’s Prayer, you can find many of these elements contained within it as well. Each one of the elements assigns worth to what He has done, is doing, and will do for them and with them.

RainbowWhat’s Happening When We Praise?

We are turning our focus to God.

We are giving God credit for what’s happening in our life. Yes, even for those things allowed by God that hurt and try us. The hurt and the trial change us but sometimes the very things that hurt us gives us an opportunity to help those who must endure such things as we’ve experienced. It's a chance to  offer hope.

We are humbling ourselves as children of the Lord Almighty. We are acknowledging His power and sovereignty. We are recognizing our need for His mercy and that He is our provider.

We are remembering His faithfulness in the past, relying on it in this day, and proclaiming a belief in it for the future. Any and all unknowns for us are always known to God.

It's a love offering. We are offering a heart-devoted. We are offering an intentional love. We are offering a determined trust. 

 

Woman praisingWhat is Happening When we Don’t Praise?

There are things that hurt us so badly we can’t praise and we don’t have to praise God for those things. When we can’t praise God, we can still reach out to Him and offer our devastated heart into His compassion-filled hands. He can give us such a comforting peace found nowhere else. We can share with Him our brokenness so we may be healed and restored. 

There are other times when we can praise, but don’t. Why? Is it because we’re too busy? Are we taking God for granted or crediting our own efforts? Are we failing to meditate on God's very present presence? I think it’s just forgetfulness. While we’re more likely to praise God for the “big” things that he works out, life is made of small things, small events. I am missing out on God’s faithful work in my life when I fail to be mindful and recognize how He is works daily, even hourly, on my behalf. The little things add up and, over time, I have a personal history of God’s faithfulness to me that empowers me like nothing else. To miss the small stuff makes me weak. I need to remember and acknowledge because the enemy wants me to forget. In this world where I get to control very little, I do get to control this much—choosing to mediate on God’s faithfulness so I can create and offer extravagant praise to my Lord. He deserves it!

Horse praisingHow Does God's Creation Praise the Lord?

Mary and David’s Songs of Praise

The praise songs of Mary and David are an intentional out-pouring of their love and worship of God. David’s praise is full of action verbs telling the reader to remember, give thanks, publish, tell, honor and so on. David’s praise proclaims that heaven and every bit of earth’s creation praises God. This is a man, a king, who holds back nothing from his God. He showers God with full-on extravagant praise.

When we read Mary’s praise song, her words share a humbleness, joy, and a remembrance of God’s power and provision. Contained within both praise songs are powerful encouragement. When I read these songs of praise, I can’t help but be moved by their trust and hope in the Lord. Mary and David are only two of the many people who praise is recorded in the Bible. Paul and Silas sang songs in prison. Whether it was worship or praise they kept their hope and faith alive by offering their hope-filled hearts to God. That’s what praise does—it encourages, it empowers, it lifts our eyes up, it finds hope in emptiness. 

I seek to be a woman who praises God as often as possible. That hasn't always been the case. My focus was blurred and I missed God's presence. You know why I decided to change? Because my heart failed to thrive. It was dark, overgrown with bitterness, sadness, and the soil was dry. Nothing good to grow in my heart. When I intentionally decided to look for God's presence in my trials, I saw opportunities to praise. When I seek to find Him, you bet I do and I praise His faithfulness! God deserves my praise and I want to give it to Him. And when I do, I get a gift as well. My heart opens and I get even more of what makes me thrive: light, love, peace, joy....

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Create a Praise Prayer

If you've never created a praise prayer, I encourage you to try it and use it as a beautiful start to your day or to enter your night’s rest. There’s no formula to praise God. All you need is the love in your heart for Him, but if you’d like a little direction on writing a prayer I’ll share a few tips.

Start with a statement acknowledging God as Lord and describe what makes Him Lord. Example: Heavenly Father, holy, majestic Lord. There is no other God but you.

Include a statement on why God’s presence in your life is so important to you. Example: God, you are my wisdom, my protector, and my security.

Identify His faithfulness in your life. Example: Jesus, you gave me courage during…and provided what I couldn’t for myself. I know you’ll give me that same courage in this day.

Tell Him why you want His mercy and grace. This statement relays your humbleness.

Most importantly, praise is about love. Tell God why you love him and what He means to you. That’s exactly what Mary and David did. You can be certain that God loves to receive your love and your praise prayer is a gift from your heart to Him.

Praise is a Gift!

Icon Hearts Encouraged (2)Praise encourages your heart when you acknowledge God’s faithful activity in your life.

Icon Hearts Encouraged (2)Praise is an intimate act, an offering from your heart to your Lord and Savior.

I hope praise permeates your life! I welcome your thoughts and comments. Thank you for sharing this post and being such a faithful community. Fondly, Terri

References

1 International Standard Bible Encyclopedia

2 Webster’s Revised Unabridged Dictionary


Changing Seasons

Originally broadcast as a Facebook Live Event on April 15, 2018 @TerriHutchinsonAuthor page (Hearts Encouraged). This post includes the dialogue as well as Self-Encouragement Tips found at the end of this post.

Hello and Welcome to Heart Lift! Today, I’m bringing you a Heart Lift to encourage, inspire, fortify, refresh your heart and mind. Today’s Heart Lift centers on the verses from Isaiah 58:11, the New Living Translation.

The Lord will guide you continually giving you water when you are dry and restoring your strength.

This verse comes to my mind as I listen to the personal stories of women and men who are pouring out of themselves to the point of soul-dehydration. What I mean is they are giving their time, energy, love, care, or emotions so much so they are becoming depleted. Some examples include the caregiver that’s becoming physically and emotionally exhausted or the parent whose heart is intensely hurting for their child.  We can get in a state of soul-dehydration because we aren’t being filled as we pour out.

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Another form of soul dehydration is an emptiness within our heart. It can happen because life wears us down. It can happen as we endure a long stress-filled season or with an ongoing battle with fear and anxiety. Soul dehydration occurs when we lose hope. And, it happens when we wonder if God sees us, hears us, or cares one bit for us. I'm here to tell you God sees, hears, and cares for you! We can trust our Lord to restore what has been poured out. When you go to the only Source that restores, revives, and refreshes, you will find a safe place. A place of rest.

Seasons 1I want to share with you some things I’ve learned from my season of depletion that is transforming into a season of restoration. First, some background information—in 2014, my husband and I stepped out in faith purchasing land, then building a house in South Carolina. Throughout the process God blessed our steps. Moving forward to July 2017, we felt it was time to move our lives to South Carolina. This would mean living and working in a new state, a new community, and require me to follow Jesus adventurously. As I embarked on this adventure, my deepest desire then, and now, and is to be surrendered, living in a state of intentional trust as the process unfolds.

Being adventurous with Jesus sounds fantastic at the start until you get into the heart of it and you start to feel lost. You wonder if you and God are on the same path anymore. As the weeks and months passed by, staying steadfast, in resolute trust that God was in control became difficult. By December 2017, the waiting led to wondering that led to questions, doubts, and fears. In my plan, there was no waiting. I had everything falling into line, with the timing of events occurring seamlessly. I’m certain your laughing right now saying, “Really, Terri?” Yes, that was silly of me but then that's me. Soon enough I would realize God’s plan, unlike mine, had waiting written all through it.

The reason the waiting is hard is because waiting chips away at our trust in God's plan, timing, and control. Though I’m committed to trusting God there have been days I’m not sure I have the strength to remain encouraged and surrendered.

By the time January 2018 rolled around, I started wondering if this adventure was less about moving to South Carolina and more about winning a spiritual battle of trust over doubts and fears. One thing is certain, God’s faithfulness is written all over my life and I feel strongly that He deserves my trust. I determined in my heart to win this battle pushing through obstacles and trampling fears. Staying strong, in intentional trust, surrendered to God’s timing,  left me spiritually dehydrated and depleted. I have been using internal resources to win the battle of trust over fear and anxiety.

So, what would you tell me now that I’ve confessed this? I think you would say, “Terri, you know you can’t win a spiritual battle on your own. Why didn’t you ask God for His strength to fill you, to help you stand firm? Would you believe me if I said I forgot? I don’t know why I come to have this untimely “amnesia” when life ramps up and stress increases. Who wouldn’t ask for the things Jesus says is available to me: rest, peace, or carrying my burdens. I want my soul refreshed and renewed. Thank goodness for changing seasons!

Relaxing

There’s a new season on the way, a season of rest and refreshment. What has changed? Two things. I’ve finally awakened to the fact that the Lord has been waiting to fill my heart and to refresh my energy stores. Second, I changed my perspective, my focus. With my family now in South Carolina while I remain in Ohio, my responsibilities have diminished. I’m living with friends who are graciously housing me until details are finalized. It’s a place of peace, a respite. Life has gotten simpler. My pace has slowed. The change in my perspective from what isn’t happening to what is happening has caused me to see what God is doing for me. Seeing it, I'm able to accept this season of rest as the gift God intends it to be. Am I still waiting on God’s plan to unfold? Yes. I’m still fighting the urge to doubt and question our decisions and steps that brought us to this point. But, I’m intent on receiving and enjoying this brief time of rest that God has written into His plan for my life.

Let me emphasize this point: the moment I ask Him, God gives me what I need. The only One who is able to replenish my soul and help me stand strong is Him. I am so very thankful God deeply desires to partner with me, with you too, as we move through difficult seasons.

Seasons 2I wonder if you’ve experienced a season of rest or restoration after a difficult time? For example, have you received strength in spite of what were capable of? Or, maybe you received a boost of courage that you didn’t think possible. Perhaps, it was a profound sense of peace.

What we need to remember is there is no one, but God, who knows our life, our heart, our cares. He delights in you and is ready to refresh your soul the very moment you ask. Yet, asking is just the first step. If you ask for it, then anticipate it. The act of anticipating opens your spiritual eyes and ears as well as your heart to receive God’s provision. You don’t know the form or the way your need will be met, but you want to be in a mode of anticipating, a state of readiness, so you’re open to receive it.

You, dear friends, have an invitation from God for a never-ending conversation. No concern or need is too unimportant to share with God. So, share! To close, let your heart be lifted and your soul quenched by this refreshing truth.

Icon Hearts Encouraged (2)You are a delight to the Lord

He is living life with you

He concerns Himself with your troubles

He is ever ready to meet your needs

He hears your unique voice 

If you are interested in activating your inner encourager, see below for tips on how to be a self-encourager. Thanks for reading! Please share with those who need encouraged!

Tips for Becoming a Self-Encourager

One way I engage in self-encouragement is to find nourishment from God’s word. I search for a heart lifting gem in the Bible and then transform it into a digestible nugget that feeds my soul. For example, I take a verse like Psalm 31:7-8 and write it into a simple narrative, or I might bullet point it. Then, I add a picture that further embeds the verses or truths into my heart. I put it in a place that is easy for me to access or see. For example,

Woman

I have God’s unfailing love

God concerns Himself with my life.

He is ever ready to meet my needs,

calm my fears, and tend to my trouble.

He hears my unique voice.

I matter to God.

Psalm 31:7-8

See how I've reworded this verse in a form that helps me digest it and, receive it into my heart and mind so it can stick! I think that’s the main thing – determining how can you get the encouragement to stick with you.

Once you have created these encouragement gems for your use, then its easy to take this self-encouragement and gift it to someone else. When you’ve been through difficult times, you can see the signs in another woman or man. If they’re struggling with a current life experience that exhausting and depleting their soul, your encouragement may be the heart lift they need.

Another tip is to keep encouragement verses very close to you. I have two verses under my work computer screen that only I can see. I have one in my wallet. I have one in my car. The purpose is to have it handy so that when I feel a surge of overwhelm, fear, or anxiety then I have an immediate remedy. A sniff of lavender oil helps, too.

I hope these tips help you be a strong self-encourager! My prayer is that your heart sings with the knowledge that God is with you and for you! Believe it!

 


Let Yourself be Captivated

Hello and Welcome!

I am excitedly anticipating the beauty of spring and can't wait to explore all the newness that comes with this season. This post encourages you to let yourself be captivated with the nuances and details of life as it presents itself to you. Enjoy! 

Can you remember the last time you let yourself be caught up in the details? I’m not talking about critiquing an email or a proposal. I’m not referring to critically judging effort or choices. When was the last time you moved in close and used every sense to experience the moment?

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It seems like it was another lifetime ago when I walked the local metro park to exchange the energy of the city for the color and comfort of the woods. My desire was to meld into the scenery, being present and anticipating the surprises it held for me. I heard sounds of thick branches falling and the rustling of the forest floor as squirrels searched for treasure. I enjoyed the falling rain on the tree leaves and the refreshing scent filling the air. The cardinal’s red splash of color against the brown limbs made me smile. I remember being intensely startled by the sight and sound of 20 deer bursting out of the woods into the field. Such power and grace in motion. What a “wow” moment that’s forever embedded in my memory.

God designs creation with unfathomable detail and it’s made known to you and me when we stop and consider it. What benefit do you receive by fixating on notes within a melody or the individual brush strokes of a painting? What do you gain by letting yourself be fascinated with the tiny nuances of anything? As for me, I have to counter those questions with, “Do I have the time to let myself be captivated?” The answer is yes and for good reason. 

Here's what you gain--

Appreciation 

You gain deeper appreciation for the talent and gifts of others that allows them to create beauty in the same way our Father has.

Real Time Presence 

By narrowing your focus on the details, it brings you very present in the present.

Renewed Curiosity

Letting yourself be fascinated helps you see and listen with more clarity in that moment and beyond.

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Here’s what can change within you as you focus on the details--

A slowing down. A physical change where mind and body are at ease.

Your curiosity comes awakens and is activated.

You're open to the richness of life and creation.

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Karl-fredrickson-74973-unsplash - SpringSee, I’m doing a new thing! Are you not perceiving it? Isaiah 43:19

I know I’m moving so fast through my life that the details are a blur. I’m also aware that I’m missing “it”. I don’t understand how I got so that I only want the snippets of the story, the bottom line, and the point. I’m deliberating throwing away the details as insignificant. Who has time for “it”? Do you? As I choose to appreciate, be present in this moment, and be curious, I connect with creation, the person in front of me, and with God. God is doing new things all around me and connecting to Him is like connecting to wi-fi thereby increasing my sensitivity to the now. I want to perceive! I want to see God at work in my life, in the lives of others, and in this world. That won’t happen unless I’m paying attention.

Anthony-rossbach-59478-unsplash - SpringDo you ever wonder what you might be missing?

God likes details. He was all about the fine points when he instructed Moses and the Israelites on the preparation for the Tabernacle. If you read Exodus, the specific design, measures, colors, and ornamentation ordered by God is incredible. From clothing to woodwork, God had a design and was concerned with every tiny bit of it. But, it goes deeper than that. God is very much concerned about the nuances and details of every human life. Let me show you. In Genesis, God came to Hagar in the desert calling her by name. He consoles her and leads her back to the camp. With His eyes roaming the earth, He found Hagar. God’s detailed plan for her life didn’t include that desert experience and He led her out of it. God demonstrated his care of her. In John’s gospel, Jesus' conversation with the Samaritan focuses on the relationships in her life. Not to condemn, but to show her a different path. Is God really that concerned with the paths you take? Definitely. Even more, Psalm 139 says God knows when you sit, when you rise, perceives your thoughts, and is familiar with all your ways. God cares about every detail of your life. Because God is interested and invested in the details, I want to do the same. 

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With spring’s arrival there will be plenty of opportunities to engage your senses and get curious about spring’s display as things that are dormant renew in infinite ways. I encourage and challenge you to appreciate the details that are revealed as bulbs sprout, buds open, birds sing, the earth thaws, and spring's colors burst forth bit by bit. It will mean you’ll have to stop moving, take a look, train your ear, slow the rhythm of your thoughts and appreciate. You might have to bend low or turn you head up toward the sky. My hope is that as you let yourself be captivated with the details you will experience "time standing still" moments. When was the last time you were so fully engrossed in an activity that you completely forgot about the element of time? If you can’t remember, then I believe you should try this challenge. Live fully present. Perceive what God is doing within you and around you! Be amazed by the glory of the Lord.

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Blog Update

In the near future, I will be creating a Facebook (FB) author page and posting FB Live videos. The purpose is to provide real time encouragement for you as you pursue God and take that relationship to the next level. You can join in during the Live event and comment, or you can watch later. Comment anytime as I will get those and respond. I’ll post the link here and on my personal FB page when the Author Page is up and then you can Like It.

Always, I am thankful for you being part of this Hearts Encouraged group and I’m very open to your feedback and special requests. Just let me know. Thank you for sharing the blog fellow encouragers!

Fondly, Terri

 Credits

Photo by Karl Fredrickson on Unsplash  (Spring)

Photo by Anthony Rossbach on Unsplash (Bee)

Photo by Maarten-van-den-heuvel on Unsplash (Bulbs)



My Quest for Peace Stressed Me Out

Don’t you just hate it when you lose something? It’s even worse when you lose it a second time. I had peace, then it left me or I lost it. All I know is that my search for peace left me stressed out. You can’t experience peace if you’re pressuring yourself to be at peace! That’s just being crazy which is where I find myself frequently these days. Yes, I live better when my heart and mind is at peace but striving for it is not the method Jesus prescribes. So, how do I hold onto this treasure, make it my lived experience? Last month’s post focused on stress and how it can consume our life and steal from us. This month I’m encouraging you (and me, too) to let peace have its way in your heart and mind.

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When I dwell on what peace can do, I think of so many wonderful possibilities. Peace is that healing balm for a hurting heart, a craving for a busy mom, or a sense of well-being that calms a worried mind. Peace soothes and refreshes over-whelmed senses. The Bible says peace is found in God’s promises, peace is Jesus’ gift to us, the peace of God stands guard over us, and the Holy Spirit counsels us to receive peace. The Bible is filled with encouragement on how to let peace take root in your heart and mind. My mission is to receive and hold onto the peace Jesus promises that I can have.

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“Peace I leave with you; my peace I give you.

I do not give to you as the world gives.

Do not let your hearts be troubled and do not be afraid”. (John 14:27, NIV)

When I’m face to face with trouble or an escalating problem, too often I head straight to the intersection of Worry Way and Anxiety Avenue. Unfortunately, my immediate reaction to turn to worry and fear-filled anxiety is deeply embedded. It’s a habit I need to resist for two reasons. First, my inner turmoil affects those who interact with me. My lack of peace can keep me from responding to others with the peace of Christ. I very much want people to find peace and leave with peace after they have been with me. The second reason to resist worry and fear is because Jesus tells us we should.

Jesus tells His followers to not let their hearts entertain fear because fear (being afraid) and peace cannot dwell together. Further, the apostle Paul told his beloved Timothy that he was not given a spirit of fear, but the Spirit of power! It’s a reminder for you and me, today. As a Christian, peace is a choice-point and the Holy Spirit will lead me to it. Choosing to let peace rule my heart instead of fear gives me power to resist worry, anxiety, and fear. It's my love relationship with Jesus that gives me access to his gift of peace. Realized or not, our souls hunger for a strong peace, a sustaining peace. We need a peace that fortifies and heals. By going too long without the peace of Christ, we become parched, weary, and lifeless. Jesus wants us to live with well with courage and with hope. His peace within us restores what stress, worry, and fear deplete.  

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“Then you will experience God’s peace, which exceeds anything we can understand. His peace will guard your hearts and minds as you live in Christ Jesus.” (Philippians 4:7, NLT)

Can you conjure a mental image of peace as a guardian ready to defend your heart and mind from the poisoned arrows of dark fear and worry? Peace is your guardian when you let peace take control of your heart. Our God knows we cannot stand against the constant assault by the world day after day. While peace can be our response towards people and trouble, it's challenging. For that reason, we have the Holy Spirit as our necessary counselor leading us to peace.

Your first step to safeguard your heart and mind from turmoil, anxiety, and fear is this--let the peace of Jesus control, guard your heart. (Colossians 3:15, NLT)

Dark fears and uncontrolled worry poisons your mind leading you towards a pervading negative outlook. But, God’s peace draws you to a different experience—a calm quietness encapsulating your heart and mind. Jesus wants to carry your fears and worries, lifting that burden off your frame. You get to choose to exchange those burdens for peace. When peace is in charge of your heart and mind, then it controls your response instead of the circumstance.1

I’m writing this post about peace knowing full-well I struggle with the practice of peace. Frankly, I get frustrated with myself letting anxiety take hold. Why don’t I have more self-control and go straight to the peace path? Where I am weak, the Lord provides. Thankfully, the Spirit prompts me and nudges me to receive the alternative. I’m so grateful I’m not alone in the spiritual battle over my heart and mind. I’m developing the practice of seeking peace in heart and mind with the Lord as my teacher.

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Your Soul at Ease

Imagery is powerful and David’s 23rd Psalm portrays tranquility. Mindfully imagine the scene in these verses:

“You, Lord, make me lie down in green pastures, and You, Lord, lead me beside quiet waters. You alone restore my soul. And You, Lord, guide me to paths designed for me.”

This word picture creates within me a craving to experience what David writes--moments of quiet, contentment, and stillness of heart and mind. David’s words help me imagine those things that my Father in heaven wants me to receive: rest, restoration, calmness, and a relinquishing of every one of my worries and concerns.

Having all this information in your back pocket perhaps you’re thinking, “Yes, I agree that peace is all that you’ve described and I would love to have it and live peace-filled, but is it realistic?”

What I can and can’t do

Icon Hearts EncouragedI simply can’t manufacture peace out of my own resources.

Icon Hearts EncouragedI can ask the Holy Spirit to help me let peace supersaturate my heart and mind.

Icon Hearts EncouragedI can mindfully let His peace control my heart so it’s my automatic choice.

Icon Hearts EncouragedI can embed that sense of peace, the experience of God’s peace, as a remembrance so I will seek it.

Icon Hearts EncouragedI can choose peace as my response.

Icon Hearts EncouragedI can intentionally seek peace moments with God. 

Peace Prayer

May You, the God of Hope, fill me to the full with joy and peace as I trust in You. Please let me overflow with hope by the power of the Holy Spirit.

(Romans 15:1, NIV paraphrased)

Praying this verse is your request for a joy and peace that super-saturates your soul and envelopes your mind. You’re saying you trust God to fill you with peace and you believe there is no limit on the duration or the amount of peace you can receive. Believe it, sister! You’re making this request with an expectation of receiving joy, peace, and hope so you can endure and remain encouraged in every situation.2

And don’t forget that the Holy Spirit leads you, shepherds you to peace, and helps you respond with peace. It’s worth the effort to resist fear and worry and hand the controls over to peace. It’s a way of living that Jesus died to give us.

I would love to know of your experiences with seeking and receiving peace. Your comments do so much to encourage others. Thank you so much to those who commented on the stress post in January. Blessings, Terri

References

1 - Psalm 9:10; Isaiah 26:3; Matthew Henry’s Commentary on the Whole Bible (2nd printing new ed. 2011). Page 891. Hendrickson: Peabody, MA.

2  - Romans 15:4-6


Stressed?

Another Saturday and another trip by me and my husband to the Lowe’s in Columbus, Ohio. These frequent trips were happening because we were the proud owners of a lot in South Carolina. A lot begs for a house to be built and we took the challenge. We weren’t novices at house building but this was different and it felt like an adventure. This house would require us to oversee every tiny detail from selecting the house plans to finding a builder to doing what we were doing that day. All of it from Ohio. On this Lowe’s trip, we were in the lighting isle, heads up, and staring at the brightness and dimensions. I was daunted as I considered every room, every crevice I might want to have lit. Looking down at my list in hand, I felt a heaviness in my chest. I rubbed it to make it go away. Not again, I thought, what’s wrong with me, now? I shifted by mind back to the lights just wanting to get it over with.

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Have you ever found yourself experiencing internal turmoil because of the stress in your life?

I happen to be one of those people who haphazardly manages my stress. Sure, you can lecture me on all the significant health effects stress has on the body, but I already know all that as a nurse. And, I won’t bore you with the health statistics but trust me when I say that the terms significant health effects and stress will always be in the same sentence. It’s true that low level stress can have positive effects on our performance, but constant and sustained stress is bad for us at every level.

Every time I walked into Lowe’s to make house selections, I felt like a python was squeezing me to death. Of course, you saw the connection as you read the story, but I couldn’t put it together at the time. The stress kept me from doing so. Multiple stressors were tapping my resources and this one women show was starting to bomb. I was worrying about everyone and everything. When I was told the chest heaviness and stomach issues were causing panic anxiety, it didn’t sit well with me. My first thought labeled that as ridiculous and lame. Panic anxiety? I couldn’t believe I had that much stress to cause that kind of anxiety. The physician prompted me to share the matters and concerns in my life. As  I heard the list with my own ears, only then did I realized the burden I was carrying. One stressor heaped onto another had brought me to my knees.

Stress-2902537_640Stress steals

What has stress stolen from you? Sleep? Peace of mind? Health? Life hours? Self-control? Joy? Laughter? If you spend any time thinking about it, you’ll find that stress causes casualties. Excessive stress steals and it can draw you away from God. It’s really important to monitor the forms of stress and the amount of stress in your life. Believe me, I don’t want to get to the point where my body tells me I’m on overload especially when I can proactively monitor the stress in my life. I have to let go of what I can’t control and ask the Lord to lead me through what I can control. I deny myself peace when I fail to remember my lived experience of His provision over the course of my life.

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If you consider everything Jesus went through during his time on earth, you’ll find he fully and completely understands the stressors in your life.

Jesus knows the stress associated with meeting demands. The people came to him day and night for healing, prayer, comfort, miracles, and teaching. He knows your weariness as you try to meet the needs of those in your circle.

Jesus understands your difficulty managing the conflict between God’s commands and daily influences. Jesus was sought by Satan, faced political powers, and others in authority who tempted and mocked him.

Jesus came face to face with betrayal and rejection as those in his intimate circle deserted him. He sees the toll it takes on your heart when you experience the same.

Jesus’ responded to the death of Lazarus and John the Baptist with great sadness. He deeply understands the stress you experience of losing those you love.

We were not meant to face high stress situations and traumatic events alone. Human to human, heart to heart is how we grow endurance, resilience, and hope. When we allow ourselves to be supported by God and His people, then we find a strength we can never create on our own. It is not a sign of weakness to reach out for help. I used to think needing help meant I was insufficient to handle it on my own and that was a bad thing. Now, I know better. Asking for help is a sign of wisdom and the way to live life well during stressful and overwhelming situations. There is a tendency for us to think we have to be strong and endure but if we do this out of our own strength we will eventually falter and crash. Don’t let your pride say, “No thanks” to God’s help or any other help as it comes to you.

God will meet you and lift you up  because of His great love for you

Intentionally choose to deeply trust God. There’s nothing in your life that’s too unimportant for God. He wants to get in it with you. Isaiah 40 from The Message Bible helps to explain God’s desire to meet you in your immediate need.

“Why would you ever complain…saying, “God has lost track of me. He doesn’t care what happens to me”? God doesn’t come and go. God lasts. He’s Creator of all you can see or imagine. He doesn’t get tired, doesn’t pause to catch his breath. And he knows everything, inside and out. He energizes those who get tired, gives fresh strength to dropouts. For even young people tire and drop out, young folk in their prime stumble and fall. But those who wait upon God get fresh strength. They spread their wings and soar like eagles. They run and don’t get tired, they walk and don’t lag behind.” (Isaiah 40:27-31)

Peace-3010107_640Your faith is power-packed to help you remain resilient

In the studies conducted on resilience, a key factor was identified and a question was posed: Why are some individuals able to “bounce back” better than others? This is how the term resiliency gained importance. The studies discovered that some of us have developed protective strategies as we are confronted with stress and one such strategy is spirituality. For believers in Christ, one of the key protective elements is faith, hope, and trust. We see God as a source of security, a sure thing, when all else seems to be crumbling. With our faith built on the foundation of God’s promises, we can exist within the circumstance, hold on to the good, and move through the stress or traumatic event one small step at a time. Truly, that’s all we are able to do--take one step at a time, believing God has hold of us, and He will stoop down to meet us in it.

Rely on God for…

Icon Hearts Encouraged (2)God provides relationships, particularly unlikely relationships or people who come into your life for just a season--for such a time as this.

Icon Hearts Encouraged (2)God provides inner direction through the Holy Spirit. You need only focus on quieting your mind and heart in order to hear.

Icon Hearts Encouraged (2)God provides the capacity for you to endure.

Icon Hearts Encouraged (2)God speaks tenderly to your heart to increase your confidence in your ability to stand strong. God provides wisdom.

Icon Hearts Encouraged (2)God can help you see how He is working and how He is using you as a source of strength to others as they view your example of strength and endurance. And, when you can’t be strong, He will provide those resources through people who will come along aside.

What worries will you let go of and place into the Lord’s care? Will you receive the peace of Christ letting it rule rather than stress? Is stress stealing something from you? Take it back! Are your thoughts taking you down the path of worry or anxiety? Put up a mental roadblock and capture those thoughts. You’ve got this!

Thank you for reading and I pray peace fills your heart and mind. Please share this post to encourage others.  Blessings to you, Terri

 

References

Mayo Clinic link for Healthy Lifestyle – Stress Management:

http://www.mayoclinic.org/healthy-lifestyle/stress-management/in-depth/HLV-20049495

Impact of Stress on the Body

Bartol, G. M. and Courts, N. F. (2005). Holistic Nursing: A Handbook for Practice. The Psychophysiology of Bodymind Healing. B. Dossey, C. Guzetta, and L. Keegan (Eds). Sudbury MA: Jones & Bartlett; Graham, J. E., Robles, T. F., Kiecolt-Glaser, J. K., Malarkey, W. B., Bissell, M. G., & Glaser, R. (2006). Hostility and pain are related to inflammation in older adults. Brain, Behavior, and Immunity, 20, 389-400; Tully, P. J., Cosh, S. M., & Baune, B. T. (2013). A review of the affects of worry and generalized anxiety disorder upon cardiovascular health and coronary heart disease. Psychology, Health & Medicine, 18 (6), 627-644. http://dx.doi.org/10.1080/13548506.2012.749355.

Jesus Knows

Luke 22:39-44 (stress of upcoming death); Matthew 14:13-16 (demands and needs of the people); Matthew 4:1-11 (tempted); Luke 22:1-6, 54-62 (betrayed and deserted); Matthew 27:27-31 (mocked); Luke 23 (crucifixion); John 11:35 (wept); Matthew 14:6-12 (John’s death); Matthew 27:11-26 (Pilate, religious leaders)

Resiliency

Resilience to loss and potential trauma. Bonanno, G. A., Westphal, M. & Mancici, A. D. (2011). Annual Review of Clinical Psychology, 7, 511-535. doi: 10.1146/annurev-clinpsy-032210-104526

Resilience to loss and potential trauma. Bonanno, G. A., Westphal, M. & Mancici, A. D. (2011). Annual Review of Clinical Psychology, 7, 511-535. doi: 10.1146/annurev-clinpsy-032210-104526;

Navigating hardships in old age: exploring the relationship between spirituality and resilience in later life. Manning, L. K. (2012). Qualitative Health Research, 23 (4) 568-575. doi: 10.1177/1049732312471730

Spirituality and resilience among post-graduate university students. Gnanaprakash, C. (2013). Journal of Health Management, 15 (3), 383-396. doi: 10.1177/0972063413492046

Resiliency in action: Practical ideas for overcoming risks and building strengths in youth, families, and communities. Henderson, N. (2014).  Retrieved from http://www.resiliency.com/free-articles-resources/hard-wired-to-bounce-back/


Brave Enough To Keep Going

If you’re like me during the month of December you gather with friends and family and, inevitably, get to reminiscing about holidays past or just about anything else. Sometimes, we end up laughing so hard our stomachs hurt. Those are good times! And, there are other memories that are more respectfully solemn and wistful. I wonder what holiday memory has quickly surfaced in your mind even as you read these words.

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As for me, the Christmas of 2003 is a memory I will never forget. No song or colorful light display could bring joy to my heart. I entered the season struggling with muscle weakness that affected my ability to walk and speak. The weakness caused me to fatigue so much so that even to bring food to my mouth and chew was an effort. It was a depressing time because I had no diagnosis and the neurologists were puzzled.

We were living in Cincinnati and planned to drive to Columbus on Christmas Eve to be with family for a couple days. We reserved a handicapped accessible room at a hotel so I could shower. I couldn’t step in and out of a tub without someone helping me to lift my legs. Both of our parents’ homes had very small bathrooms with tubs. My pride and shame of needing someone to help me shower and dress is what drove me away from staying with them.

Candles in darknessWhen we arrived at the hotel, you can imagine my dismay when I found out that the promised handicapped accessible room was not available. This devastating news meant our only alternative was to stay at my in-laws house. This was the very thing I wanted to avoid. I felt vulnerable and defeated. I wanted to go back home. I cried out to God, “Wasn’t it was enough to bear the look on their faces as well as the questions that I had no answers for. Why this, too?”

I needed to override those emotions and re-focus. But how? I knew in my heart my perspective was distorted. There were things that were right with my body. I knew the only way to keep going was to recognize that everything is a gift from God. I may not have been walking properly or very far but I was still able to walk. I could see, hear, and speak even if the words were sloppy. I could smile. I could laugh. I needed to be brave despite what I was experiencing.

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I wonder if you know someone who has faced an unexpected, unanticipated situation this year that has rocked their world. Through local and world news, we come face to face with women, men, and children whose lives have been irrevocably changed. Is it possible for them to be brave enough to keep going? Yes, because God is with us in it.

Brave enough to keep going is about maintaining a steady, fixed gaze on Jesus. It was his laser-focus on God that kept him walking the path all the way to the cross through to the resurrection. Jesus knows what you need to take the next step and the step after that. Whatever courage I can muster will always falter, but how much stronger I am when I lean on Jesus.

I made it through the Christmas of 2003 with the love of my husband, family, and friends. There would be many more days after that requiring courage, trust, and hope. In August 2005, I successfully completed six months of intensive therapy so I could walk and perform those essential activities like laundry and running the sweeper. You wouldn’t think that someone could look forward to that, but I sure did! Yet, the outcome is not the focus of this story. The important point is that in 2003 I couldn’t see what was in store for me in 2005. But, I intentionally chose to trust God one step at a time, one day at a time.

Winter pathEven today, I have to decide if I’m brave enough to follow God. If I want to experience everything He has planned for me, I need to commit. What about you? Are you in need of courage to follow? To take the next step? Perhaps not today or tomorrow, but in the future you and I may need to be brave enough to keep going. When you ask for courage you can count on God answering that prayer!

The following verses* and encouragement statements sustained me during those difficult, dark days in December of 2003 and they sustain me today. I hope the Word of God fills you with courage, hope, and peace. Blessing and peace to you, Terri

Icon Hearts EncouragedBe fierce in trusting God.   Psalm 37:23, 27:14

Icon Hearts EncouragedBe thankful.   Colossians 3:15

Icon Hearts EncouragedStay present in this day.

Icon Hearts EncouragedDeliver me from all my fears.   Psalm 34:4

Icon Hearts EncouragedGod has given me a Spirit of power, love and

   self-control – USE IT.   2 Timothy 1:7

Icon Hearts EncouragedHave I not commanded you? Be strong and courageous.

Do not be terrified; do not be discouraged,

for the Lord your God will be with you wherever you go. Joshua 1:9

Icon Hearts EncouragedHelp me receive the Spirit’s wisdom and revelation.  Ephesians 1:17

Icon Hearts EncouragedQuietness and trust first, then I can hear His call.

Icon Hearts EncouragedEagerly expect and anticipate God’s presence,

   leading, counsel, and direction. 

Icon Hearts EncouragedKnow God delights in you and will open the way

   if He delights in your steps.   Zephaniah 3:17, Psalm 18:19

Icon Hearts EncouragedRely on God -- be bold, fearless, courageous

   He has commanded you to do it.   Joshua 1:9

Icon Hearts EncouragedGod’s resources are unlimited!  Romans 8:32

Icon Hearts EncouragedGod reveals his plan in his perfect time.

Icon Hearts EncouragedGod will fulfill his purpose for me!  Psalm 57:2-3

*Many verses are paraphrased and come from the New International Version.


Gratitude Notes

Welcome and Hello!

For November, our encouragement focus is on gratitude. These Gratitude Notes are meant to encourage you to dwell in a continual state of gratitude. May your gratitude shine forth in any and all circumstances. Blessings, Terri 

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Have you ever met a person with such a warm, deep appreciation for the kindnesses they have received that it streams through their speech and attitude? I have. And it amazes me. At first, you sort of wonder if it’s real until you meet them time and again and the message is consistent. They live from a foundation of gratitude. What's their secret? They live present-focused.

Gratitude is a way of being, a way of thinking. You express it through non-verbal pathways—your eyes, your expression, and your posture. Gratitude directs your thoughts and your speech. It starts by planting a seed of gratitude in your heart. Next, you nurture that seed with intentional thoughts of appreciation and recognition of the Lord’s presence in your life. The result is gratitude rooting deeply, blossoming in your heart.

Gratitude is a choice. When you utter words of thankfulness, praise, and acknowledgement of God’s faithfulness and love, particularly in a difficult situation, you are sharing a powerful message of hope, of trust and gratitude. Gratitude feels illogical and irrational until you experience the strengthening peace enabling you stand and take that next step. There are many ways to respond in times of discouragement and despair. Gratitude statements help bring your focus back to what God has done, is doing, and will do.

Gratitude is an act. Your offering of gratitude to the Lord is of such great worth that nothing in this world compares to it. Nothing! The reason is because it’s from your heart which is so highly treasured by your Heavenly Father.

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There are many inspiring Bible verses and quotes about gratitude and thanksgiving. I have provided a few quotes and verses as a jump-start for you to create personal Gratitude Prompts. I encourage you to take this list for a test run. Test these on a day that’s not discouraging or eventful. Read these aloud mindfully, being very present focused. As you read, or after you’ve finished, assess the effect of these words on your heart or thoughts. If you feel renewed gratitude in your heart, then take the next step. Create personal, meaningful gratitude statements to use on those difficult, discouraging days! I hope you'll discover anew what the Lord has done, is doing, and will do because of your trust and hope in Him.

Woods-1072819_640Seeds of discouragement will not grow in the thankful heart. –Anon.

Lord, I will cultivate thankfulness in my heart. Let the Word of Christ—the Message—have the run of the house. I will give it plenty of room in my life.... I will sing, sing my heart out to God! Let every detail in my life—words, actions, whatever—be done in the name of the Master, Jesus, thanking God the Father every step of the way.   –Colossians 3:15-17 The Message [with my paraphrase]

Gratitude is an offering precious in the sight of God, and it is one that the poorest of us can make and be not poorer but richer for having made it. – A. W. Tozer

Thank you, Lord, that you hear your people when they call to you for help. You rescue them from all their troubles. You are close to the brokenhearted; You rescue those whose spirits are crushed. The righteous person faces many troubles, but the Lord comes to the rescue each time.  --Psalm 34:17-19 NIV [my paraphrase]

Gratitude is the memory of the heart. –Massieu

 

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Gratitude Statements

 

What a relief to know I can place in your hands my heart-felt cares and worries! 1 Peter 5:6-7

God, the knowledge of your unfathomable love and forgiveness fortifies my hope and encourages me. Romans 4:7-8

Thank you for promising to never withhold your love from me. I live assured of Your love for me. Psalm 66:16-20

When my heart seeks you, I find a rest for my soul that is like no other. Psalm 62:1-2

Thank you for your presence in my life – my hope and trust are renewed when I call to you. Jeremiah 6:16

I’m so grateful for your graciousness toward me. Lord, you know the details of my life and You are with me with every step I take. Psalm 37:23-24

When I am in distress You alone can bring healing consolation and support.  Isaiah 33:2, Psalm 94:18-19

God, you are my hiding place. You protect me from trouble. You surround me with your unfailing love. Psalm 32

How blessed I am that you’ve given me the Holy Spirit to counsel me, lead me. Romans 12:2

I call to You, Lord and I know You hear me. Thank you for taking great care with my soul, holding it in Your hands, restoring what feels broken. Psalm 34:17-18

Lord, your faithfulness is a secure promise and my life proves it to be truth. I’m so thankful I am never lost from your sight. Hebrews 4:13, Psalm 145

Thank you, Lord, for what is good in my life: __[fill in the blank]__

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Thanksgiving Prayers

 

I will fulfill my vows to you, O God, and will offer a sacrifice of thanks for your help. For you have rescued me from death; you have kept my feet from slipping. So now I can walk in your presence, O God, in your life-giving light. --Psalm 56:12-13

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An easy thing, O Power Divine,

To thank thee for these gifts of Thine,

For summer’s sunshine, winter’s snow,

For hearts that kindle, thoughts that glow;

But when shall I attain to this—

To thank Thee for the things I miss?

–Thomas Wentworth Higginson

I always welcome your comments and suggestions! God's Word asks us to encourage one another and I thank those who are sharing these with their friends and family. Blessings, Terri


Drifting with the Current

Hello and Welcome! Today's post is brimming with tip points and action steps to encourage you journey on your faith walk. Last month was the blog's birthday and if you haven't yet received your birthday gift for being a subscriber, just go to the October link under Archives in the sidebar for information on how to get your free book! Now on to the post...

Have you passed by a conversation in process and get a vibe? Or, have you ever gathered for a meeting and felt the tension in the room? How do you feel when you’re part of negative, pessimistic, derogatory or sarcastic conversation? I truly believe negativity has a feel to it. Even more, when we are in a negative environment, it changes the status of our muscles, blood pressure, heart rate, breath, peace, thoughts, and attitude. Negativity dims and tangles the heart and mind. Just talking about it makes me gloomy!

Thankfully, we are also wonderfully affected by the polar opposite of negativity! We do our body and soul good when we offer affirming and positive words, receive smiles, share laughter, listen with understanding, and extend gratitude. These acts lift and brighten our hearts. I can remember a day I watched some people having a great laugh and I thought to myself, when is the last time you laughed, grinned, or giggled? I couldn’t give myself an answer. I don't know how long it's been since I laughed until my stomach muscles hurt and tears were rolling down my face. That bothered me so I decided to take note of how much negativity I’m exposing myself to on a day to day basis. Breaking news! is always negative. Then there are the prompts by media to look at the disturbing video and listen to the angry exchange of words. I get to see and hear way more than I need. Advertisers, too, try to get my attention with negative twists.

Snorkel boatHe reached down from on high and took hold of me; he drew me out of deep waters. --2 Samuel 22:29

In deep waters is where I found myself several years ago when I became immersed in negativity.  I liken it to my experience of snorkeling. I’ve snorkeled a few times in my life so far in Mexico, Grand Caymen, and the Turks and Caicos. It was in Grand Caymen that I learned what not to do. Whether on land or sea, I get distracted. When I snorkel in the ocean, I’m so focused on the beauty of the coral and other ocean life beneath me that it’s easy to lose track of my position. I can’t truly gauge my location from the boat because I’m face down in the water. I’m unaware that the tide and current is causing me to drift, moving me further and further from the boat. If the current takes me away from the boat, then I will have to fight that current to get back. That’s the mistake I made. By the time I came up to check my location, I was a significant distance from the boat. The only way back is to swim against the current and if it’s strong then it can be very difficult and tiring. (By the way, the boat won’t come to you.) I made it back but it was hard and exhausting.

So, how does drifting relate to negativity? Negativity causes you to drift from your starting point--that being a heart filled with gratitude, hope, and trust in the Lord. When you’re focused on the negative you don’t realize your position has changed.

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There was a time when I indulged myself an occasional complaint or a grumble. I justified it as a harmless act of stress relief. And, it did feel like relief. It’s the kind of relief you feel when you enter refreshingly cool water on a blistering hot day. It felt like I was off-loading, unburdening, releasing the frustration. That’s reasonable, right? It’s no good to keep things bottled up. But, there’s a danger zone. The more often I indulged myself the further I drifted from my starting point. My stress and frustrations coupled with external negativity acted as a steady current pulling me to into deeper water. Occasional complaining or grumbling turned into a consistent pessimism and gloomy outlook. A habit was forming. My complaining, grumbling steadily transformed my mindset and attitude and day by day I drifted away from gratitude. So far from where I started, I no longer had a proper perspective on what was right and well with my life. I became a person with an all-encompassing negative outlook and viewpoint.

Why did it happen? I can’t really say except that I let it happen. Eventually, I figured what I needed to do to get back to my previous heart position. Unfortunately, it took me a long time to turn my thoughts and attitude around. Unlearning requires endurance.

 

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What are the signs and symptoms of a negative attitude and perspective?

Loss of sight. The eyes of the negative heart can see no good thing. The mind’s eye becomes a negative view-finder focusing on what is not right, not fixed, not happening, not healed, and not working.

Forgetfulness. We ignore God’s presence forgetting His past faithfulness. This mindset dismisses all else that God is providing, working out, or resolving.

Ingratitude. We cannot, or choose not, to offer thanks and gratitude to God for what is and for what is not. As a negative heart and mind persists, it transforms and reforms our will.

Anxiety. Negativity increases our stress and our hearts become anxious. Negativity erodes our faith, hope, and peace.

Have you ever been in a conversation with someone whose focus is directed at the negative and unable to see what is right with their life? Let’s make it more personal. What do you reflect on more, the positive aspects of your day or the negative conversations and experiences? Take a moment to think about it. Where do your thoughts land? On the positive or the negative?

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Restore Balance

Go to what delights your soul

Entertain peace in your heart

Fill your eyes with beauty

Tune your ears to songs that praise

Nurture your body with rest

Refresh your thoughts with the Word of God

Surrender unknowns to the Lord

Choose to see, perceive God’s active, working presence in your life.

Now to him who is able to do immeasurably more than all we ask or imagine, according to his power at work within us. –Ephesians 3:20

You simply can’t imagine or comprehend all that God provides to you on a moment to moment basis, but it is possible to intentionally reflect on His constant presence intervening, influencing, resolving, strengthening, directing, and involving Himself in your day.

Icon Hearts EncouragedFurther Action Steps

Catch a Negative Thought. Stop a negative thought in process and move your frame of mind in the opposite direction.

Spot the Positive. A proper perspective allows you to create positive momentum within your thoughts that is reflected through your speech and attitude.

Do a Body Check. When you catch your thoughts propelling you down the path of negativity do a body check. Is your jaw clenched? Is your heart rate increased? Are your muscles tight particularly in the abdominal region, neck, or shoulders? What you think about directly affects your body.

Evaluate your Environment. What you take in, is what comes out. Do you need to reevaluate what you consume via TV, internet, and other media? What about your work environment?

Pray. Ask God to help you break the habit of negative thinking. Ask Him to set your physical and spiritual vision on Him. Choose to see through eyes of faith and hope.


Hope Notes

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I’m excited to tell you that the Hearts Encouraged Blog is one year old this month! Big deal, right? It is for you! When there’s a birthday, there’s usually presents. What better way to celebrate this birthday than with a free book for you, my subscribers. I know! You weren’t expecting it, but you deserve it. I’m giving away a wonderful book by Beth Moore called Audacious. If you would like to receive this book, you can email me at heartsencouragedministry@gmail.com and let me know your preferred delivery method of either UPS or in person. If you choose UPS, I’ll need your address but be assured I will not share with any other party. Thank you so much for being a faithful subscriber! I thank God for each of you! Now, on to the post… 

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If I told you that hope is to your heart and soul like water and oxygen are to your body, would you believe me? That statement might seem a little over the top until you talk to people who have experienced profound circumstances. They will share they persevered because they chose to hope. Hope is powerful.

Did you know that hope is now highly regarded by health providers? Clinical teams identify hope as a crucial element for patients living with acute and chronic health issues. Whether it’s depression, cancer, post-traumatic stress syndrome, loss of limb, heart disease, bipolar disorder, or addiction--hope is an element with significant impact causing some people to achieve a level of wellness not thought possible considering their health issue.1 Moving beyond health events that negatively impact life, there are weather events, accidents, fire, death, and more that can devastate our lives. In these situations, still hope survives. When the media chooses to highlight a story of hope within devastating circumstances, we need to see it, hear it.  We need to know that in tragedy hope can rise up, lift up, and thrive in spite of the suffering and harm. Hope gives life meaning and purpose. Hope is a force that enables you to overcome and take those first steps after a significant life event.

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There have been a few times in my life when I thought I could not possibly ignite the dying embers of hope within me. I felt depleted, utterly discouraged, and on the verge of letting my hope slip away. My face to the ground, my body limp without the strength to pull myself up one more time, and my heart so broken the pain was palpable. During a significant health event, if it hadn’t been for my dear friend, Annette, sending me the verse below I might have relinquished hope.

…If God is for us, who can be against us? He who did not spare his own Son, but gave him up for us all—how will he not also, along with him, graciously give us all things? Romans 8:31-32 (NIV)

When hope is ebbing away you can cry out to the Lord to give you hope, provide a reason to hope, and the strength of heart and mind to hope! The apostle Paul’s prayer for the people is a prayer for you as well:

I pray that God, the source of hope, will fill you completely with joy and peace because you trust in him. Then you will overflow with confident hope through the power of the Holy Spirit. Romans 15:13 (NLT)

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In this season on your life you may not find this post that pertinent or even beneficial. For this I'm glad. However, maybe there's someone else who could receive benefit or this post is something you tuck away for that day, may it never come, when you need it. When lift hits you hard you may not have the strength or time to dig through the Bible for hope statements and verses that will empower and sustain you. By creating Hope Statements , you arm yourself with the word of God so you can stand when trials and troubles comes. I created the following Hope Statements from verses in the Psalms, the gospel of John. and Philippians to get me through days of difficulty. Along with these declarations of hope, I use quotes to help me remember the truth of how God relates to me and His concern over my life. Do you have a favorite verse that lifts you up and reminds you that your hope is well founded because you're God’s child and He is for you? Why don’t you consider creating a statement of hope that is meaningful to you. You can place these Hope Statements in your phone for quick access when you need a boost, a reminder. You are not alone. You have a reason to hope.

Icon Hearts EncouragedHope Statement – Safety, Security

Lord, you are my refuge, a safe harbor in times of trouble. I know you and trust in you. You have never forsaken those who seek you. You have not and will not abandon me. Lord, I believe you delight in me and take great care of me.  (Psalm 9:9-10, Psalm 37:23-24, Psalm 18:19 –paraphrased)

Icon Hearts EncouragedHope Statement – Exerting My Faith

I will choose joy! I believe you hear the prayers of those who pray for me, Lord. I believe the Holy Spirit is helping me as I take this difficult path. What is happening to me will turn out for my deliverance. I eagerly expect and hope for courage to reflect my faith in you, Lord, as I remain steadfast in this circumstance.   (Philippians 1:19-20 – paraphrased)

Icon Hearts EncouragedHope Statement – Discouragement

Why am I discouraged? Why is my heart so sad? I will put my hope in God! I will praise him again—my Savior and my God!   (Psalm 42: 5 NLT)

Icon Hearts EncouragedHope Statement – God Knows Me, Knows My Needs

My sheep listen to my voice; I know them, and they follow me. I give them eternal life, and they shall never perish; no one can snatch them out of my hand. Because You know me, I wait in hope for you, Lord; You are my help and my shield. In you, Lord, my heart rejoices for I trust in your holy name. God, may your unfailing love rest upon me and those I care about even as I put my hope in you.    (John 10:27-28 – NIV paraphrased)

Hope is the positive mode of awaiting the future. –Emil Brunner

If we were logical, the future would be bleak indeed. But we are more than logical. We are human beings, and we have faith, and we have hope, and we can work. –Jacques Cousteau

Patience is the art of hoping. –Vauvenargues

References

1 Snyder, C. R., Harris, C., Anderson, J.R., Holleran, S. A., Irving, L. M., Sigmon, S. T., et al. (1991). The will and the ways: Development and validation of an individual-differences measure of hope. Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, 60 (4), 570-585. Retrieved from teachingpsychology.files.wordpress.com/2012/02/hope-theory.pdf