Beauty Within

Release Your Creative Self

Hello and Welcome!

Today I’m starting with a question. What do you create? I certainly hope you didn’t just say to yourself “I can’t create anything” because that would be utterly incorrect. I think you create lots of things but you’re not giving yourself the credit for it. For instance, I create a mess in the kitchen when I attempt to create a meal from nothing to something that ultimately gets fed to the dog. I create frustration for my husband when I spend more than $35 for a cut and color combo. I create peace of mind when I finally get all of the clutter cleared away at home and it stays that way for at least half a day. Get the idea? These are examples of why you can’t say you don’t “create”. We create things, feelings, thoughts, problems, and more. This post is meant to challenge you to consider a broader meaning of the words create and creativity and to help you consider the many ways you can impact those around you with your creative self.

ColorWhen you take the stuff of life and rearrange it so that it matters, so that it does good things, you’re acting creatively. –Vinita Hampton Wright, The Soul Tells the Story (2005)

You are gifted by God to do good works—creative works that bring joy, laughter, calm, peace, beauty, fun, imagination, kindness into the world, your neighborhood, your community, your work, and your family (Ephesians 2:10). Most of the time we don’t think about the reality or the impact of what we create. Whatever we create inevitably has positive and negative effects as well as implications. We get to control when we create and what we create and this is highly influenced by the circumstances and people in our lives. We are at our creative best when (1) we surround ourselves with people who will positively impact our creative self and (2) when we offer our creative self to positively impact another soul.

Use what talents you possess; the woods would be very silent if no birds sang except those that sang best. –Henry Van Dyke

Be Bold, Use It!

So how do we surround ourselves with people who will help our creativity shine? You might be amazed by the fact that you are already surrounded. How so? Take an inventory of your friends. How do their gifts manifest? What do you perceive to be the creative gift of each one? Does it complement your creativity? If you aren’t certain of or aware of their “creativity”, then perhaps you should inquire. You might be surprised at their answer when you ask. Often, we are drawn to people who inspire us or have talents and gifts that complement our own.

Cute sheetRecently, I was in South Carolina having dinner with some lovely ladies. During our pre-dinner conversation, Susan brought out samples of her quilting and then unveiled these gorgeous applique buttons she made for an upcoming conference. There were no two alike. Each specially designed button (for lack of a better word) would go on the name tag of each woman to make her feel very special. When I saw the variety of colors and patterns, I started to envision these buttons as flowers without the stems. I wanted to snatch a few and create a mixed media piece right there on the spot! I felt inspired, not to duplicate her work, but to use it in a different way that she intended to use it.

During that fun evening, I listened to the conversation and compliments of each woman concerning the fabric buttons and I became acutely aware of their creative gifts. All together in that living room I saw each one’s creative contribution: the painter, the photographer, the quilter, the writer. And not just in South Carolina. This holds true for my friends in Ohio: the gardener, the photographer, the encourager, the writer, the teacher, the kindness gifter, the hostess, the cook. Unconsciously, I have surrounded myself with creative friends who inspire and bring out my creative self.

If you don’t mind, let’s get slightly silly for a moment. I have placed a quote below this paragraph and I want you to replace the word kindness with your create endeavor. It doesn’t matter how often you create or your level of expertise, or even if you question whether you think it counts as creativity. Just replace the word “kindness” with your creative act.

MonarchIf you were arrested for kindness, would there be enough evidence to convict you? –Unknown

 

 

Well? Would there be enough evidence? For me, yes to writing; no to mixed media. If there isn’t enough evidence, what’s the issue? No time to create? No quiet to create? No zone or space to create? Maybe it’s perfectionism or fear of looking foolish. I only mention these because those are my roadblocks. Look at me--I’m posting on a blog and ten months ago I didn’t even know how to create a blog like this! There’s no time like today to give your soul the chance to express itself with abandon. Utter abandon!

We are meant to offer our creative self to beautifully impact another soul. You are a creative gift from God to the souls that enter your life. It’s your smile. It’s your kindness. It’s your quiet comfort. It’s your funny self bringing laughter into a heart that needs it more than you know. Perhaps you’ve not considered that you are the creation, beautifully gifted to impact every soul that crosses your path. You are—ask God and He’ll show you.

 

For this reason, I remind you to fan into flame the gift of God, which is in you through the laying on of my hands.  For God did not give us a spirit of timidity, but a spirit of power, of love, and of self-discipline. (2 Timothy 1:6-7)

 

We have different gifts according to the grace given us. (Romans 12:6)

 

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Never forget that God has “laid hands” on your soul gifting you with creativity. God gifts each one of us through the power of the Holy Spirit and these are meant to be shared so share abundantly!

Share this post with your friends and those who need encouragement to not give up on their creative endeavors. Be brave and use your gifts!

Fondly, Terri


Your Brand of Beauty

Hello! So thankful for your continued support of Hearts Encouarged. I hope this post on beauty is a blessing to you. You are of such importance to God and I pray your trust and hope in Him flourishes as He reveals his unfailing love and enduring faithfulness to you.  Fondly, Terri

What brand do you support? Nike? Michael Kors? Disney? Samsung? Apple? Most of us advertise on behalf of our favorite brand because it’s on our clothes, phones, and accessories. We spend money on a specific brand because something about it causes us to find it reliable, to be of high quality, or it meets the level of excellence we need to support our activities. Now, having brought this to your attention I’d like you to consider that you, too, have a brand. Surprised? I’m serious--you are sharing your brand every day. Your brand is based on your interactions with people, your attitude, your responses, and acts--what you do and how you get things done. People perceive you in a specific way and that’s your brand.

Purple flowerThere is an abundant need in this world for your exact brand of beautiful.

–Lysa TerKeurst, Uninvited

When I read this quote from Lysa’s book Uninvited, I loved it. Those words emphasizes that you and I possess a unique brand of beauty that impacts anyone who crosses our life path. These words inspire me, lift my spirit, give me a reminder that I don’t need to assimilate to the pattern of the world. I have a beauty given to me by the One who created me. And, I sustain and enhance that beauty as I apply the beauty regimen God has designed for me. Surprised, again? God has a beauty regimen? Read on my beautiful friend!  “I praise you because I am remarkably and wonderfully made; your works are wonderful, I know that full well....” (Psalm 139:14.) There’s more. You have this undeniable beauty that causes you to shine like a star in the universe when you refrain from arguing and complaining (Phil 2:14). When you choose and use the wisdom of God, a garland of grace adorns your head, a crown of beauty (Proverbs 4:9). When you interact with or respond to another soul from a heart filled with gentleness and a quiet spirit, you display an imperishable quality (1 Peter 3:4). The woman who places her hope in God beautifies herself in this way (1 Peter 3:5). This is your brand. This is my brand. Or, it could be.

Here’s one more verse about beauty and I think it’s hilarious. When I read it I started laughing because the image was so prominent in my mind. A beautiful woman who rejects good sense is like a gold ring in a pig’s snout (Proverbs 11:22). Can you picture it? The outer beauty of a woman is nothing more than a trinket in a pig’s snout when there’s nothing of beauty on the inside of that woman.

Poppy fieldWe hunger for beauty because it is a beautiful God whom we serve.

–Michael Card, Scribbling in the Sand

Beauty brings us into places of healing, as well as into God’s presence.

– Jane Rubietta, Between Two Gardens

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I believe the world is looking for beauty within people because their souls are starving for authentic relationships. Most people don’t know why they feel unsatisfied. And, they try to meet the need of their soul in various ways. God is beauty and we exhibit an aspect of that beauty when we extend the love of Jesus. You and I can bring healing with our words, a look, an act of kindness. The apostle Peter calls you and I to maintain an intense love for each other and to serve each other with the gifts we have received from God. Your gifts make up your brand. You, my friend, are known as a woman who…. Read that last sentence again and finish it in your own words. You get to develop your brand. It forms by following the example of Jesus and the examples of beauty in the bible. What do you think about giving some attention to your brand and considering how people perceive you? Whether you know it or not, people have assigned you a brand. You are known for a brand as it pertains to your work relationships, your leadership, your friendships, your servant attitude, and your display of Christ-like qualities. There’s no time like now to embark on a beautification of your heart! This is an opportunity to do a self-assessment for the purpose of sharing with the world your exact brand of beautiful that brings glory to God. Below are some starter questions to begin the assessment process. After the self-assessment, review the verses I provided above that highlight some of the ways inner beauty can be expressed and positively impact those near to you. Next, identify an area where your beauty can be more fully manifested. Fervently pray for what you need so you may experience the change you would like to occur. Here’s an example from my self-assessment. In my zealousness to advocate for the staff at work to ensure they are treated with respect, I may speak harsh statements about those who are not interacting with the staff respectfully. While my motives seem to be well-intended, those harsh statements show judgment and a lack of grace. My words reflect my perceived brand—harsh and judging. But, that’s not really my brand. I’m an advocate and I have a heart that cares about injustice. However, it doesn’t really matter who I think I am when the perception by others is different. As a result of this assessment, I need to find a better way to communicate to the staff my position of advocacy for them while remaining non-judgmental toward other involved parties.

Here are a few assessment questions to get you started! Ask yourself:

  • What would my closest friends say if I asked them what they would call “my brand of beauty”?
  • What beauty do I reflect from my heart, my personality, or my passions?
  • Do my words reflect the beauty of God within my heart?
  • Do my actions reflect the love of Jesus?
  • Does my attitude reflect a servant attitude much like Jesus during his time on earth?
  • How do I approach problems or issues? Do I currently display my brand of beauty in such moments? If not, what changes can I make?

I hope you found this post encouraging and enlightening. You and I are beautiful to God because Christ makes it so with his righteousness and with his sacrificial cleansing of our sin. The presence of the Holy Spirit within your heart gifts to you an inner beauty that cannot be exhibited without the Spirit. 

As always, I’d love to hear from you. Please share your thoughts via the comment link. You can reach me directly at heartsencouragedministry@gmail.com. Subscribe to this blog by going to the sidebar and entering your email. You'll get a confirmation from Feedblitz and then you're on the mailing list. Thanks for reading and share with a friend. Fondly, Terri

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